Welcome

Are you saying to yourself, "You can't know how I feel?"  The reality is that I can and so can many other people.  I created this site because I've seen people I love throw away hours, days or years dealing with the feelings they have about being guilty instead of dealing with the choices that caused them to be guilty.  Guilt is a state of being; not the feeling you're feeling now.  When you cross a boundary whether it be in your marriage or the speed limit, you are immediately guilty regardless of how you feel about it.  The thing that concerns me so much that I decided to build a site about it is that even though all of us are guilty, some of us hang on to the feelings that come with being guilty until we start to destroy our lives and those of our loved ones.  If you are depressed and feel alone then please seek professional help in your area.